Every Day with your beloved should be special

When you get used to someone, all the things you once admired about him, everything you loved, becomes normal to you.

You take for granted that you wake up to him, 
that you hear him saying hello or good morning... 
that this smile and the glow in his eyes are focused on you.

You don’t acknowledge his presence anymore the way you used to, when you first met.

As a matter of fact, you ignore the sparkle, the laughter, the love he gives you.

You have gotten used to each other, you may even feel bored...

But one day, this person may not be there anymore...

Either because you have taken too much and not given enough because he doesn't feel special with you anymore - 
or because the two of you have become so used to each other that you start to see the flaws as something you don’t like...

He leaves your life because you treated him as a slave or a peasant instead of your king.

Or it is simply because he left earths’ plane.

Whatever it is, if you are in a relationship right now, 
please remember that you can’t take tomorrow for granted.

If you have a loved one who you loves you deeply, 
learn to SEE this person again as someone you cherish.

What did you see in him in the first place?

Learn to observe the daily special events in your life.

How does his voice sound, do his eyes glow when he sees you?
Do you see the joy in his face when he can make you laugh?

We only have today, tomorrow is never promised...

When you fall asleep, how do you want to remember the moment when you said goodbye?

How do you want him to remember you?

Don't "get used" to someone. 
Learn to see him as special, no matter how long you know each other.

La Ara / Helen Davies