We think we are done with inner work at some point.
But the truth is, there is always more to learn, more to focus on.
Even in Twin Flame Union, there is still "work" to be done.
We are un-programming ourselves every day,
learning daily and letting go of baggage from the past.
But even if you are able to let go of the grip of the past,
things can occur in the present moment that “get to you” – and there is a chance that you have to go through a situation that traumatizes you again.
When you are in Union,
you don't have to go through this alone anymore.
You have a partner who helps you,
listens to you and talks you through it.
But in order to really be there for your partner,
you have to be selfless.
If you are still in the energy of jealousy about your partner's past, then it will be a tough ride for you.
For example, when my partner told me about his exes,
I felt insecure.
When he told me stories, I "saw" them together, like in a movie and there were times when I really felt uneasy.
Still - the deeper you go -
and allow yourself to listen between the lines - the more understanding you can bring up for your partner and his/her past.
I learned not to take any of his stories personally or to question myself and I actually started to enjoy talking about the past with him, it became natural for us to communicate like this.
The separation phase is a time for you to notice the insecurities within yourself and "work" on them.
You can use this alone-time to really dig deeper and once you discover what is going on, you can let it go.
We are all human and have our feelings and insecurities.
We all need someone to talk to and help us through it.
I am lucky that I am in union with my love - still,
it isn't always easy.
And if I wouldn't have had the separation phases with my love, there would have been many more very complicated situations, we were both able to avoid because we are both very conscious people who truly listen to one another.
The people who say that everything is perfect once you are in Union with your Partner, are not telling the truth.
The more you avoid the inner work and focus on your own energy and growth, especially during the Twin Flame Separation -
the harder the union will be.
Even we had 3 separations - and we are both very much in tune with each other.
The best way to focus on yourself and your inner work - is by taking some time every day to get to know yourself better. Read something inspiring
that will help you to be more conscious.
The outside world is not as important as the world within your soul because how you see yourself is how you perceive the world.
We think we are done with inner work at some point. But the truth is, we are never done.
But if we never even start with the inner work (or inner play), we will never get the chance to know our true selves.
Inner Work means Waking Up to who you truly are.
Who are you without the labels, without your job, your name, without everything that defines you outside of yourself?
Start there.
And the "inner work" can begin.
Helen Davies
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